Basic idea is that any problem child is a problem for the whole family, and the solution to the problem grows most naturally out of the helpful involvement of all family members. Discussions in the home are essential in this democratic setting. As a group leader, the father can get important information about their kids,
about individual problems, and their relationships to each other.
Big BOS can then guide thechildren in the continuous educational process. Discussions provide him with an opportunity to help the kids understand themselves, and to change their concept of themselves and others which will eventually change their motivations from hostile to cooperative living. It is the papa's responsibility to confront any misbehaving pupil with his mistaken goals.
But here in my home...???
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